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Hair All Around

The other night I was at a gospel singing. Yes singing. Lol. Anywho. As I sat there taking in the scene, I noticed all of the women around me. I took in each hair style. The way each wig was made. I noticed the outfits. The tightness of each dress. The shape of each woman. By this point, I’m all in with checking out the women who could possibly get a brotha’s attention. I started to look down at the black dress that I’d sweated out from preaching earlier. I didn’t have time to change clothes so yeah. I thought about the hair on my head. The wig and my natural hair underneath. I then began to wonder am I enough. Am I noticeable? I mean I know I’m cute in the face and all. But I wanted to know if I was flippin noticeable.

I know I’m not the only woman who does this. As I thought about all of this. I then thought about how comfortable I was. My feet felt fine lol. I could breathe alright. And moreover, I just felt comfortable with being Vonya. I then wondered if that’s enough. The biggest realization of this night was I am enough for God. He made me enough and to the man He has for me, I’ll be MORE than enough.

“And in love he CHOSE us before he laid the foundation of the universe! Because of his great love, he ORDAINED us, so that we would be seen as holy in his eyes with an unstained innocence.”

‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭1‬:‭4‬ ‭TPT‬‬

I’m Chosen & Ordained for everything and everyONE that God has for me. You are too.

Keep Mending.

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